Last-Minute Valentine’s Don’ts
Valentine’s Day… a day of love, romance, and sometimes last-minute panic. If you have found yourself scrambling for a gift or plan this week, here is a guide to hopefully lower that stress; a list of DON’Ts to steer clear of, and to ensure a romantic evening that doesn’t turn into a night of error.
Gas station flowers:
While they may be convenient, nothing says “I forgot” like a wilted bouquet from the Cumberland Farms down the street. Your valentine deserves more than a last-minute pit stop purchase. Opt for a handwritten note or a small, thoughtful gesture instead.
Regifting:
That spa stuff you got for Christmas may seem like a good idea, but regifting is a big no-no. Passing off a disregarded bottle of lotion and a few face masks is not only impersonal, but your Valentine will definitely recognize it! Stick to something simple and heartfelt that shows you’ve put in the effort, like a gift card to a favorite store, spa, or restaurant.
Cooking Experiments:
Unless you are an experienced chef, trying out a new recipe for Friday could easily turn into a disaster with a complicated recipe. You do not want to be the reason for an upset stomach. Stick to tried-and-true favorites or order from a nice restaurant. Maybe even cooking together can be the plan!
Last-Minute Reservations:
Calling your favorite restaurant on Valentine’s Day at 6 PM for a reservation is a rookie mistake. Chances are, they’re fully booked. Instead, plan a cozy night in with a movie and some takeout. It’s the thought that counts!
Generic Cards:
A card with “Happy Valentine’s Day” and nothing else? Do better. Take a few minutes to write a personal message. Create the card from scratch with your own drawings (no need to be a good artist.) Share a memory, a joke, or a heartfelt sentiment: personalization is key. This simple task will mean much more than a pre-printed greeting.
Tacky Gifts:
Heart-shaped anything can be cute, but there’s a fine line between adorable and tacky. Steer clear of oversized teddy bears, cheap jewelry, and anything that looks like it came from a dollar store. A simple, meaningful gift will always win out: flowers, chocolates, or even a personalized playlist for you and your special someone.
Ignoring the Day: Pretending Valentine’s Day doesn’t exist will not only not make it go away, but is also a way to ruin a relationship. Even if you’re not a fan of the holiday, acknowledging Valentine’s with a small gesture can go a long way in showing your partner you care: consider a sweet letter or even a baked good from your nearby bakery.
Avoid these last-minute Valentine’s Day NOs and you’ll be well on your way to a special, memorable day with your loved one. After all, it’s the thought and effort that truly count. Happy Valentine’s Day!